Category: Therapy

If therapy is starting to feel like Groundhog Day, the same conversations, the same patterns, nothing much changing—you’re probably picking up on something real. There are usually a couple of reasons why therapy stops working: either it’s not a good fit, or you’ve actually reached where you need to be. Both are valid, and both […]

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One of my favourite moments in therapy is when someone sits down and says, “I’ve been thinking about what you said last week. I was mad at first… but I get it now.” That’s a great moment of growth, and a big part of how therapy works. This is a core principle of psychotherapy: it’s […]

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Not very long ago, artificial intelligence was something from the sci-fi movies my family loved. But it suddenly seems like AI is everywhere, and promising to change everything about our lives, including mental health support. I understand why people are intrigued. An AI therapist is there whenever you need it; there’s no waiting room or […]

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In Pixar’s 2015 hit animated movie Inside Out, we watched Riley’s emotions-Joy, Sadness, Anger, and the gang-literally battle for control of her brain’s command center. One of my favourite scenes was when Riley’s emotions were all screaming at the control panel at once. That’s basically what happens when you’re outside your “window of tolerance.” Once […]

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After three decades as a therapist, I’ve heard a lot of stories from clients who are struggling with many different issues, but in the last year or so, there’s been something new. I’m now seeing people struggling with deep feelings of worry and dread about the state of the world. They’re often both exhausted and […]

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As a psychotherapist, I see many people entering the holidays emotionally exhausted from life’s demands, rather than looking forward to celebrating with family and friends. While this season is often associated with joy and connection, it can also intensify exhaustion and emotional overload. Some clients describe what they think is “just stress,” but on closer […]

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A “bid for connection” is any small attempt one partner makes to get the other’s attention, support or affection. It might be a comment, a glance, a touch—anything that says, “I’m here. Are you here with me?” These moments may seem small, but research shows that how we respond to them matters a great deal. […]

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Do you apologize for everything? For speaking up in meetings? For taking the last slice of pizza? For existing in elevators? Do you say “sorry” when someone bumps into you? If that sounds familiar, it might be time to start taking up space in the world. “Taking up space” is a therapeutic concept that means […]

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Teens face unique stressors including academic pressure, complex social dynamics, and the challenges of growing up in today’s fast-paced digital world. These factors can heighten anxiety and interfere with their ability to function and enjoy life. Many teens find it difficult to voice their feelings, making it hard for parents to know when help is […]

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Does It Matter If My Therapist is Trauma Informed? By Kathy Netten Trauma is defined as an overwhelming experience or emotional shock. Natural disasters, war, accidents and crimes are examples of traumatic events. People can also develop trauma from exposure to common, harmful conditions such as: Abuse (physical, sexual, emotional) Neglect (physical and emotional) Living […]

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